…. And Likes Me
Ask a person what they desire in their next relationship, or
from their next mate and you’ll get a long laundry list of desires. You know the usual ; honest, loving, kinds,
caring, trust worthy, appreciative, reciprocity, available. Throw in the
physical, mental, religious, age, job, wants/ requirements etc. ,and everybody
has a dream scenario that they’ll lay out. But the one thing people often
forget is “Likes Me”. We often take
it for granted how important that is, we just assume that they will or do or
going to.
However, …And
likes me, is an X factor, it can be measured, but its intangible, it
has to be in the equation for a successful relationship, even if you over look
it. Don’t believe me, you ever met or know someone that met a person that was
everything they wanted, hoped, prayed for but the person didn’t like them
back. Like carries a lot of weight, a
person can take you on all the perfect dates but they still have to like you.
They can give you all the mind stimulating conversation you can handle, but
they still have to like you. All the spine tingling orgasms, even all the love
in the world mean nothing if the person doesn’t like you.
And to that point,
like can mean a whole lot of things also. They like you for who you are, like
you for who you are; when you’re with them, like you for how you make them
feel. What about, likes you for who you are becoming, who you can be ( rather
that be positive or negative, we know how we can be sometimes).
When its all boiled down,
“…likes me” is one of the most important things you need in a mate and
should search, for. Strive to like those that like you, or at least give them a fair shot, they may
not be all that you want/ attracted to, but if they really like you they’ll be
what you need.
My opinion, my experience, my
perspective. What’s yours?
Slin_K
@slin_k_polymath on twitter
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