What type of relationship are you in? : The intro

So Spring is officially over and were in the middle of Summer,  Its hot and women are dressing less guys are out hunting, its a time of fun, sun and leisure. And unfortunately the Spring /Summer time of year is also the time of bad relationship decisions. A lot of people make bad decisions  especially during this time of year, that will effect them way down the road in future relationships. 

A lot of relationships of all kinds jump off during this time of year, many relationships start and we meet new people because we go out more, we socialize more, we party more, we travel more, we stay out later, go on vacations and cruises etc. So we have more opportunities to meet people and get into relationships 

But a lot of relationships end around this time of year also and a lot of unhealthy decisions are made around this time of year. Think about the spring and summer flings. The rushes to hook up, skip parts of the process, and even potential to cheat during theses times of the year

Now cheating and bad decisions happen all times of the year, and after assisting in a few articles recently about cheating, it got me to thinking about alternative relationships. Most people don’t even know they have multiple options for relationships, because everybody so focuses on monogamy, but believe it or not not everyone is built for or desires monogamy in their relationships. A lot of people are in alternative relationships and don't even know. A lot of people opt in to monogamy knowing its not what they want, and  some expect it knowing that they are going to be unhappy by i, but want to avoid being taboo 

Im not endorsing anything or suggesting anything, but I think that every relationship regardless of titles should have boundaries and rules, and there should be known consequences, repercussion and penalties for not respecting those rules. It doesn’t matter what other people think as long as you and the person/ people that are in that relationship are happy in that relationship, its no one else business. But every one should know what kind of relationship they are in and you need to mature and adult to pull of every type of relationship.  

Screw the taboos, in the next series of blogs we’re going to explore the true meanings of different kinds of relationship, so you can know what kind you are in/ want, identify it, and fix it or get out of it if necessary. We’ll discuss the possible rules, scenarios and give some explanations and definitions on everything from a functional relationship, friends with benefits, to the concept of building a companion. Look Forward to it, keep an open mind, even if its not for you, one should know all the options available, it may help you understand how others think