Lerarn to feel

Greetings its been forever I know, I don't really use this anymore, maybe I should start back. Im on twitter and face book a lot more now and I haven't really been writing articles, and definitely not solo articles much. I've been doing a lot of stuff in collectives and doing list; you know 8 ways to know if blah blah blah. I used to used this blog for when I'd write an article whatever didn't get used, I post. But if you want to hear from me on a more regular basis catch me on facebook at //www.facebook.com/onemanmanytalents, follow the page and you can get my thoughts and inspirations daily, on a variety of subjects.

As you probably know I ghost write articles whenever possible. And I recently just got through assisting with a piece concerning how feelings or the lack of are damaging relationships, especially people that are or wish to get married. These are parts that didn't make the article, its a few lines in their the writer fought really hard to get in, but because of space and the compromise to keep some other stuff in the article these tid bits had to hit the cutting room floor, but they were still good pieces of advice. So I wanted to share. Do with them what you will. 

… Allow yourself to feel, the problem with cold callous people, is when they should feel something or want to, they often can't.

It’s messed up, but in order to love, in order to trust, you also have to know how to hurt. One of the worst things in this society we have going, is that we tell people to get out of their feelings and to not be “emo” (short for emotional). Why? So what, were emotional creatures, but everybody trying to be hard, is creating a generation of emotionally unstable people, jaded women and bitter men. Love is a gamble; I put you in the position where you could ultimately hurt me every day, but I trust you to not and trust that you wont. And if you do, I’ll search for a way to forgive you anyway. That is the loyalty, unconditional; that we often speak of , yet fail to practice…

Slin_K
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