What you're phone bahhits say about your relationship

Can you or who ever you deal with pick up each other’s phone and look through it whenever they want, no questions asked. Pick your jaws up, I can feel you getting offended as I write this. But serious question, the higher up on the type of relationship chain you are the less absurd that question and the resulting answer should be.  I mean if you kicking it, you’re a side chick, you only have a friends with benefits thing, then its foolishness, but if you are married, engaged, committed then you may want to examine your relationship if it sounds absurd.

Do you know what the true test of trust is in the technology age, rather or not your mate will let you see their phone. How do you have trust in a relationship, where you have to lock your phone and have a secret password? That’s not transparency at all in a relationship. 

A friend of mine used to say recognize the signs, and the only reason people lie is because they are afraid of you or have something to hide. We’ll not being transparent and keeping secrets is lying to some people.  The behavior alone tells a lot, its says that you possibly would lie about something. It always starts small, hiding little things, and then it makes it easier to hide things like, bills, things you snuck and bought, people you are dealing with and inappropriate relationships, etc. It all starts with secrets, just a thought. My opinion, my belief, my perspective. What’s Yours? Sound Off

Slin-K

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