Why Men have problems Committing

Fellas a great piece of wisdom " Thing about relationships, that all men need to realize because I've had this problem too, and felt guilty about it, the reality is that men are Always going to want to F*&k other women. And a lot of times when you find the woman that's the woman of your dreams and you love her and she's all that you ever wanted in a woman, you're afraid to forward in committing to her and marrying her because you really feel bad about wanting to Smash other women. It don’t mean anything is wrong with your girl, she's still your GREAT find, but you always gone want to smash somebody else." - Phonte     It would be easy if when you got with someone you stop being attracted to other people but you don't.  Its a hell of a truth for many men, and its something we usually cant explain but this quote explains it perfectly, and many of men have lost one or two good women because they keep them waiting trying to defeat these feelings. Ladies you can play a very helping supporting role when a man is going through something like this, when you want a commitment and he’s saying wait. First realize its not you, but also realize this doesn't make him wrong or bad or not serious or anything, he doesn't know how to deal with  it, and delaying it until he defeats is his thought pattern. However its a none winning battle because no matter how long of a relationship you been in, how perfect, etc men fantasize, think about, desire, are attracted to,  have sexual urges towards other women.  Ladies accept it and let him know that if that's his holding back factor, you understand but he’ll always feel that way. In all honesty ladies never stop being attracted to men just because they are in a relationship, as long as no one starts acting on their urges outside the confines of the relationship shouldn’t be a problem. Something a woman I was interested in used do to make it not awkward so that I didn't feel guilty for noticing a fine woman, is she would point them out. I know its hard for women to acknowledge other women beauty, but that puts pressure on your men. SO its a exercise in humility for you and a big relief in stress and pressure for him, so he doesn't feel unnecessary guilt and mess around and loose a good thing trying to defeat something that will never go away.  Because most men go through this. My opinion, my experience ( a lil to much) and my perspective. Whats yours ? Sound off